They had lived down the road from each other as children. Everyday they walked home from school hand in hand; they were childhood sweethearts, they were bestfriends. And when they came of age, in the time-honoured Sri Lankan tradition they were given in marriage. To other people.

Ashok Ferrey
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Sadly, in the 21st century this is how many marriages are conducted in Sri Lanka, with both parties getting married to someone they have never met. The fact that they are best friends when they are children does not mean that their friendship will translate over time. As much as it may be painful when you realize your childhood friend has gotten married to someone you do not know, it must be equally painful for the person you have just been given in marriage.

Source: The Good Little Ceylonese Girl

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